Namings

“We look at this cherry tree sapling and know that it will grow from strength to strength

as we look at Theo and see how he grows and gains strength.

We know the cherry will come into blossom and be beautiful

as we see Theo blossom and how beautiful he is

 And we hope that one day the cherry will bear fruit,

as we wish Theo to come know the wonder of having children of his own.”

Billie and Richard

The arrival of every child brings their own story and meaning to those who brought it about. A passionate moment, a long-term relationship, even years of IVF and a hundred variations in between, the conception of each child has had its own journey and we can celebrate that. Sometimes funny and sometimes sad, it’s all there.

You may want to acknowledge old friends by asking 2, 3 or 4 people to become special friends or ‘guardians’ to your child. This too becomes an important moment in your ceremony.

Central to the ceremony is the moment of naming and your reasons for the choice of name.

The ceremony can take place almost anywhere depending on how many guests you want – a house, garden, flat, hall, community centre, pub, wherever suits.

If you are at home, people like to have a symbolic act such as the planting of a tree.

There is no set way of going about a naming ceremony. Give me a call and let’s see what you have in mind, I’m happy to explore it with you.

We had no set expectations going in but we were absolutely delighted with how the day turned out. Your professionalism and warm approach really set the tone and we couldn’t have asked for a more meaningful and smooth celebration. We received so much positive feedback, especially about the tree planting— such a special touch, and we were thrilled the weather cooperated for it! The day was a complete success Graham, and we truly appreciate the role you played in making it so memorable. We’ll be sure to keep you in mind for any future celebrations , if we’re fortunate enough to welcome another little one into our family.

Aoife and Fergal

We found Graham after we decided that we wanted a non religious ceremony for our first child 5yrs ago.  Graham gave us all his attention and took us through what is involved in a humanist naming day. The day was a success and everyone said what a lovely ceremony it was. Many hadn’t attended a humanist ceremony before. After we had a second child we straight away thought of Graham. Luckily he was available. Again he came to visit and took loads of information regarding our new baby. The naming day again went as planned and it was a lovely day. 

Graham is always professional and full of advice and ideas.

Sinead and Craig

graham.downes.celebrant@gmail.com

tel: 07941 234052